BDSM Sex Toys

Thinking of buying crazy BDSM toys for some kinky fun or as a gift?

As a first-time shopper, it can be awkward asking someone advice about the best gear. We completely understand and you are not alone. There are hundreds of toys out there. They include restraints, gags, floggers, whips, paddles, latex dresses, and harnesses.

You also have hoods, masks, nipple clamps, cock cages and more. Each BDSM toy has a special use. To fulfill your Fifty Shades play fantasies, you need the right gear.

Lucky for you, we’ve prepared this guide. In our post, we review the top choices on the market.

The best toys are a great addition to your sex dungeon. They offer a whole lot of possibilities. With the right BDSM gear, you can experience incredible orgasms while fulfilling your sexual fantasies.

Here are the top BDSM Toys Review

Breathable Silicone Ball Gag

With the Breathable Silicone Ball Gag, you can control how and when your subject speaks. Made of a medical-grade silicone ball, its breathable and has luxurious brown leather for a secure fit.

The silicone ball will not hurt your teeth. As such, the subject can bite down on the ball. Since the ball is silicone-based, its body safe and will not degrade while in the mouth. It’s also phthalate-free.

It has silicone extensions on the side making it a delight to wear. There are three holes at the center of the ball. This increases the subject’s comfort level as she can breathe through the mouth.

To complete the look, you have Rosy bronze hardware – buckle, D-rings and buttons. For a secure fit, adjust the strap to any size of your choice.

The ball measures 1.69 inches while the straps measure 19 inches to 25 inches. Although the silicone ball has three holes for breathing, it’s important to be safe.

The subject will be unable to speak a safe word since the ball will cover the mouth. Instead of speaking a safe word, have the subject make a safe signal. You can either choose a bell or taps.

Things we liked

• Comes with three holes allowing the subject to breathe via the mouth
• Made of medical-grade silicone
• Does not chafe the corners of your mouth
• Strap is adjustable for a secure fit
• Will not hurt your teeth

Things we don’t like

• Subject will end up drooling via the holes

Leather Arm Binder

Want to satisfy your desire to conquer? If so, the Leather Arm Binder is a great choice for you. Made of soft, stitched leather, the material is non-irritating and skin-friendly. As such, it will not cause any skin irritation.

Y shaped, the Leather Arm Binder comes with a lock to bind the arms and shoulders. You can adjust the tightness according to your desire. To do so, adjust the zipper accordingly. Made of latigo leather, the adjusting buckling straps are strong.

Latigo leather refers to cowhide that is chrome tanned then vegetable tanned. Before the latest combination tanning technique, Latigo leather was typically tanned with gambier and alum. It’s also infused with oils and waxes. This makes the leather waterproof and strong.

At the end of the Arm Binder, you have a D ring. This acts as a point of attachment while you act your fantasy. You can attach other toys and make your bondage scenes exciting.

What you ought to know is that the armbinder fits smaller framed persons. For broader framed persons especially men, the armbinder will not fit. Simply put, if you are 5 ft 6 inches and over, the armbinder will not fit.

Things we liked

• Made of soft stitched leather
• Has strong buckling straps for adjustments
• Versatile and restrictive
• Subject perfectly plays the role you want
• Available in black and red

Things we don’t like

• Expensive compared to other similar products • Cannot fit broad-shouldered persons

Brown Leather Collar & Leash

Transform your plain old sex into something extraordinary with the Brown Leather Collar & Leash. Designed to make a memorable entrance in your sex dungeon, it has a bright gold finish. The bright gold finish is on the following hardware – D rings, studs, and chains.

The collar is leather-based. Made of luxurious chocolate brown leather, the collar does not irritate the skin. The chain is gold with a leather handle. Beautiful and stylish, it allows you to lead your subject for an erotic journey.

The chain has a length of 40 inches while the handle has a length of 5.5 inches. In loving hands, the Brown Leather Collar & Leash makes sex more dramatic and less predictable. Before buying, make sure you know your subject’s neck size.

Although the collar is adjustable, you want to ensure it fits snugly and comfortably without causing any irritation. When it comes to cleaning, you have to find a suitable leather cleaner.

Make sure to clean under the D rings and smaller surfaces. This prevents the growth of bacteria and mold.

Things we liked

• Made of luxurious chocolate brown leather
• Has gold D rings, studs and chain
• Beautiful and stylish
• Easy to set up
• Versatile

Things we don’t like

• Sterilizing the leather is slightly difficult

Big Barrel Ankle Spreader Bar w/ Cuffs

To make your bondage scenes more exciting, try spreader bars and yokes. The solid bar between your subject’s legs and arms makes her submissive in the right position. In this position, you can stimulate or punish her as you desire.

The Big Barrel Ankle Spreader Bar w/ Cuffs has black neoprene cuffs. Handmade in the US, the cuffs secure your subject in the best position for your fantasy play. Neoprene is tough.

As such, it’s an excellent all-purpose rubber. Thanks to its physical and chemical properties, neoprene is heat, chemical, and ozone resistant. This is in comparison to regular rubber. It’s waterproof too which means if your subject sweats during play, no damage will occur.

Black powder-coated, the Big Barrel Ankle Spreader Bar w/ Cuffs has three welded loops. These loops are great for attaching a number of BDSM toys. For example, leashes, chains or rope. At the end of the bar, you have black neoprene cuffs.

Not only are they easy to clean but they can withstand any form of bondage. The spreader is made of high-quality materials. As such, you can be confident that it will hold your subject in the best position during your bondage scenes.

Things we liked

• Comes with neoprene cuffs
• Made of high-quality materials
• Black powder-coated for added protection from elements
• Easy to set up
• Easy to maintain

Things we don’t like

• Expensive compared to similar products

Sexy Slave [3 Pack] Soft Cotton Bondage Rope

Versatile and fun, you can create hogtie scenes with a bondage rope in the bedroom or dungeon. For example, you can tie your subject to a chair or bedpost. Made of soft cotton, the bondage rope is comfortable and does not irritate the skin.

In fact, you can restrain her ankles, breasts, wrists and other parts smoothly and with careful knots. A few knots you can try include the figure of eight, bowline, sheet bend, and reef knot. Others include the slip knot and clove hitch.

Although the material is soft cotton, it does not chafe easily or leave burns. Each rope is 32 feet long and 1/3 inch thick.

Thanks to its thickness, pressure is never concentrated on specific parts of the body. As such, circulation around the body will not be choked.

To stop the ropes from fraying, they often arrive with a single overhand knot at each end. You can leave the overhand knots as they are. For added protection, whip both ends with wax thread. Alternatively, you can make a complicated knot at each end.

Things we liked

• Made of soft cotton
• Does not irritate the skin
• Comes in three colors – black, red and purple
• Perfect for different role-play scenarios
• Holds a knot well

Things we don’t like

• Has a core that slips out of the soft cotton

Pipedream Fantasy Pleasure Tape

Want to put your subject in a sticky situation? If so, the Pipedream Fantasy Pleasure Tape is a great choice. Fun and easy to use, its perfect for hot and kinky sex. This PVC tape contains 75 ft of bondage tape.

Most people always opt for duct tape because it has a stronger bond. Well, it’s not the right accessory for bondage play. In fact, it can cause allergic reactions and damage your playmate’s skin. This is not something you want even though you are acting out different bondage scenes. So be sure to test it first before using.

The Pipedream Fantasy Pleasure Tape does not stick on skin or hair. It sticks on itself. As such, your subject will not be sticky after removing the tape. The good news is that it creates a strong bond around your playmate.

Depending on the position you choose, your subject will submit to your will.

Things we liked

• Made of PVC assuring of a strong bond
• Does not stick on your playmate’s skin or hair
• Never irritates the skin or cause allergic reactions
• Contains 75ft of bondage tape
• Available in black

Things we don’t like

• It has the vinyl smell

Clear CTRL Ankle Cuffs

Constructed out of clear vinyl, these restraints are light and strong. Durable in construction, they are waterproof and do not irritate the skin. Perfect for the dungeon, your playmate can wear them during space roleplay, cyber roleplay or futuristic role play. The Clear CTRL Ankle Cuffs feature functional nickel-plated D rings.

For a secure fit, adjust the locking buckle. The company believes that playmates and their masters should feel sexy about their bodies while bound.

Cleaning the Clear CTRL Ankle Cuffs is easy. You can clean them under warm running water to prevent bacteria and mold from growing. What you need to know is that warm water will not expand the cuffs.

They will retain their shape after cleaning. Store the cuffs together with your BDSM gear.

Things we liked

• Easy to clean
• Made of vinyl
• Comes with nickel-plated D rings and locking buckle for a secure fit
• Easy to use
• Stylish

Things we don’t like

• The cuffs have a vinyl smell

ElectraStim Leather Spanking Paddle

Your sub will surely love the varying sensations that the ElectraStim Leather Spanking Paddle offers. It has three chrome electrodes that will surely leave your playmate squirming. With each swing, your playmate will experience a different sensation thanks to the chrome electrodes.

The chrome electrodes are on one side. You can always switch sides to vary the sensations. What you ought to know is that the ElectraStim Leather Spanking Paddle is bipolar. As such, it works best by itself and its even more powerful when combined with BDSM gear in your collection.

The ElectraStim Leather Spanking Paddle is perfect for playful discipline, especially for naughty playmates. It comes with a comfortable handle that is easy to maneuver too. Wrapped in soft black leather, it makes every spanking session pleasurable than the other.

It has a D ring at the end of the handle. This D ring can provide support when maneuvering the paddle once you loop a leather cord. The leather cord wraps around your wrist for extra grip.

Also, you can use it for storage after your spanking sessions.

Things we like

• Made with soft leather and chrome steel • Easy to maneuver • Works in tandem with other BDSM toys • Great for playful discipline • Easy to store

Things we don’t like

• Expensive compared to similar products

Nylon Bullwhip

Whips are powerful tools. Designed to strike fear in the heart of your subject, it delivers a painful but powerful punch. With the right whip, you can combine the sensations of electro sex and impact play.

The Nylon Bullwhip is 5 ft long. Simply put, what you have is 5ft of 12 plait braiding minus the popper and fall found at the tip. Sturdy and lightweight, it’s made of nylon paracord.

Nylon paracord is a lightweight kernmantle rope used in the making of suspension lines for parachutes. There are several reasons why nylon paracord is the ideal material. First, it’s durable and lasts long. Second, it’s lightweight and flexible.

Third, its water and mildew resistant. Last, it’s extremely versatile. The Nylon Bullwhip makes a satisfying crack. Just take a crack at it and watch as your subject cringes with fear. Not only that. It sparks attention from anyone who is watching.

If it’s your first time using a whip during a bondage scene, we recommend extreme caution. You don’t want to end up hurting yourself in the process.

Things we liked

• Made of nylon paracord
• Lightweight and durable
• Makes a satisfying crack
• Perfect for beginners and advanced users
• Strikes with uncanny accuracy

Things we don’t like

• If caution is not taken, one can end up hurting themselves and the sub as well

Stupid Cute Flogger

Want to discipline and reward your subject at the same time? The Stupid Cute Flogger is a lightweight BDSM toy for disciplining your sub. Made with velvety soft leather, you can use it to caress your subs body as a reward.

Soft leather is the most common material for floggers. In fact, they are ideal for beginners. The most common hide used for floggers is cowhide. You may come across other models made with buffalo or antelope hides. Such floggers are ideal for advanced users.

Why? Buffalo hide is heavy and has a high intensity compared to cowhide. To avoid injuries, you must have more experience swinging floggers.

The flogger has 10 to 20 tails. This is ideal for most people as it offers good momentum with each swing. It comes with a perfectly balanced handle. Six inches in length, you will experience joy with each swing you make.

The handle is intricately and beautifully wrapped with soft leather. As such, you have an excellent grip. If your hands start to sweat, the flogger will not fly out of your hand. Under the soft leather, you have carved wood.

At the end of the handle, you have a loop. The loop allows better handling. To prevent accidental slippage, loop a strap and wrap it around your wrist. The small loop can also be used for storage after a flogging session.

Remember, never allow the tail tips to go over the shoulder line. They may wrap around and strike your sub’s eye. The sweet spot for flogging is the upper half of the sub’s back.

Things we liked

• Made of soft high-quality leather • Has a perfectly balanced handle • Loop at the end of the handle allows for easier storage • Pink in color • Can tenderly caress the body

Things we don’t like

• Leather is difficult to clean and maintain

Full Latex Catsuit

Latex catsuits are a staple for kinky sex, submission, and domination. Popular with fetishists and rubberists, they are normally made of stretchable materials. For example, chiffon, spandex, velour, latex, and lycra.

One of the best catsuits we have come across is the Full Latex Catsuit. As a stunning costume, its made of latex. Latex is the preferred material because it contours to the body. Irrespective of body size and shape, the latex catsuit will show your sub’s smooth curves and boobs.

It’s pure and durable. As one of the most luxurious materials, its water, mildew and mold resistant. The material is also lightweight, shiny and slinky. The tight-fitting design acts as a statement piece.

Simply put, it helps to draw attention to the smooth curves, hips, thighs, and boobs of the sub. The majority of latex catsuit lovers have described the material as a second skin. The Full Latex Catsuit covers your subs body with 14-gauge latex.

It has a discreet back zipper for easy fitting. This 3-way zipper closure runs from the back of the neck to the navel. The long sleeves hug the arms completing the sensual look. What you need to know is that you can accessorize the Full Latex Catsuit with a corset or a hood.

To ensure proper storage of your Full Latex Catsuit, dust the suit with talc powder. Make sure it’s a light coating. Coating the catsuit with talc powder ensures it lasts longer. Using a soft hanger, store the catsuit. If damage occurs, repairs are tricky.

Things we liked

• Lightweight and stylish
• Made of latex
• Has a 3-way zipper closure for easier fitting
• Accessorize with a corset or hood
• Available in red and black

Things we don’t like

• Expensive compared to similar products
• Takes time to prepare, clean and put on
• Prone to overheating

Leather Torso Harnesses For Men

Enhance your favorite role-playing fantasies with the Leather Torso Harnesses For Men. Made with leather, its highly adjustable. In fact, it has 8 buckles, a built-in cock ring, and 4 O rings. The leather straps are 11/2 inches wide. As such, they wrap around your body.

This gives you a secure but exciting fit. A great bondage ensemble, the cock ring has a 2 ½ inch diameter. It’s suitable for a variety of penis sizes and offers plenty of room. Depending on your tastes, you can detach the cock ring and replace it with another style or size.

By doing so, you will keep your cock where it needs to be. You can find harnesses for the following sizes: small, medium, large and extra-large.

For small and medium, chest size ranges from 34 inches to 40 inches while waist ranges from 30 inches to 35 inches. The hip size is 35 inches to 40 inches. Large and extra-large have chest sizes measuring 40 to 48 inches. Waist size is 35 to 43 inches while the hip size is 40 to 48 inches.

When it comes to cleaning, we recommend spot cleaning with leather cleaner. There are different brands available in the store. Look for a top-quality leather cleaner. This will preserve the quality of the leather.

After use, store the harness in a dry place.

Things we liked

• Highly adjustable
• Easy to use
• Comes with 11/2-inch-wide straps that wrap around your torso
• Cock ring offers plenty of room
• Made with soft leather

Things we don’t like

• You have to buy cock replacement rings separately
• Cleaning and maintaining leather are slightly difficult

Two-Toned Dog Hood

Crafted from black leather, the muzzle and ears are soft tan suede thus the name Two-Toned Dog Hood. The mask makes your subject look like a Dobberman. For the mouth, you have a stainless-steel zipper.

To access the mouth, unzip the muzzle. What you ought to know is that the Two-Toned Dog Hood has a removable mouth gag. It’s removable even when the hood is on. The interior of the mouth has a very rich leather scent.

To ensure your subject continues to breath when zipped, you have two breathable holes just like a normal dog. For a secure fit, you have laces and a lockable buckle at the back. You also have a D ring and an O ring for attaching a leash.

To prevent hair tangles, the manufacturer includes a flap leather.

Cleaning the Two-Toned Dog Hood requires the use of a leather cleaner. This helps to preserve the richness of the leather.

For a complete look, we recommend buying a pair of paw mitts.

Things we liked

• Creative and stylish
• Very pettable
• Fits your subject easily
• Made from high-quality leather
• Comes with laces and a lockable buckle for a secure fit

Things we don’t like

• Can be hard for some people to get used to the leather scent
• Subject may sweat and drool in the hood

Lovehoney Supreme Pussy Pump

Lovehoney has been making unique sex toys since 2002. They have also teamed up with top brands to bring to you innovative BDSM gear to fulfill your bondage fantasies. One of their leading BDSM toys is the Lovehoney Supreme Pussy Pump.

Designed with a user-friendly pussy pump, it comes with a 4-inch deep chamber. The chamber is great for longer sessions or for girls with bigger lips. This means the subject’s bits can fit inside giving her immeasurable pleasure.

If you have used the Lovehoney Supreme Pussy Pump once, then the entry will not be a problem. It comes with 2 quick releases that enhance your safety. In fact, you can use the release valves for quick removal.

The cup is transparent and enables you to watch the pumping action. As such, it enhances your visual stimulation. Before use, we recommend applying plenty of water-based lube.

Things we liked

• Easy to use
• Has two release valves for quick removal
• User-friendly pump
• Comes with a handheld bulb for straightforward pumping
• Strong suction

Things we don’t like

• The tube can be difficult to remove
• Choosing the Best BDSM Gear

The best BDSM gear increases the erotic sensations and enhances the bondage scenes between a dom and a sub. They can also create a consensual power where the sub is sexually teased for enhanced pleasure. To experience the above and more, you must first buy the right one.

Here are the top 3 things to consider before buying BDSM gear:

Safety

How safe is the equipment? Before any bondage scene, establish trust with your partner. Your partner should also have a safe signal or safe word. The safe word or signal is normally used when the sub is uncomfortable or in pain.

If you don’t have any experience using certain BDSM gear like bullwhips, floggers and others, take your time to practice. Even after gaining a little experience, always start light – whipping, flogging, restraining and more.

Type of Material

There are hundreds of sex bondage products. Some are insertable while others clamp or gag the sub. Before buying any BDSM gear, take your time to learn about the materials used. If the toy is for inserting in the vagina or anus, make sure it’s made of silicone or stainless steel.

Both materials are body-safe and phthalate-free. Always avoid cheap toys as the materials used are of poor quality. Using cheap toys could lead to injuries or infections.

Size

BDSM toys such as latex catsuits, pussy pumps, dog hoods and more must be adjustable. They should either have adjustable collars, zippers or straps. Always take a look at the available sizes. if you can’t find a BDSM toy that fits without adjustments, choose another toy.

You don’t want to choke your circulation or that of your sub.

Wrapping Up

When shopping for the best gear, make sure you and your partner are comfortable with it. For instance, before buying a ball gag, nipple clamps, bullwhips, pussy pumps and more, conduct your research.

It’s also important to ensure that the different products you choose not only make you comfortable but satisfy your fantasies. Remember, safety is important when using bondage gear. Always have a safe signal or safe word.

Best of luck!